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Title IX

Empowering Students to Stop Sexual Violence

Title IX : Relationship & Dating Violence

Relationship & Dating Violence

 

Relationship and dating Violence refer to a pattern of coercive and abusive tactics employed by one partner in a relationship to gain power and control over the other partner. It can take many forms, including physical violence, coercion, threats, intimidation, isolation, and emotional, sexual or economic abuse.

Violence often starts with little things that can be denied, ignored, or forgiven. But, from there, a pattern of violence can grow quickly.

 

Warning Signs

  • Exhibits jealousy when you talk to others.
  • Tries to control where you go, whom you go with, what you wear, say, or do.
  • Attempts to isolate you from loved ones. May try to cut you off from all resources, friends, and family.
  • Uses force or dominance in sexual activity.
  • Degrades or puts you down. Runs down accomplishments that you achieve.
  • Acts like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. May be kind one minute and exploding the next; charming in public and cruel in private.
  • Threatens to use physical force. Breaks or strikes objects to intimidate you.
  • Physically restrains you from leaving the room, pushes, and/or shoves you.
  • Has hit other partners in the past but assures you that the violence was provoked.

What to Do

  • Notice how you feel. Are you depressed? Do you feel more free to be yourself when your partner is not around?
  • Notice what you do. Do you find yourself making excuses for your partner? Do you spend less time with friends and family? Do you change how you act to avoid making your partner angry?
  • Talk to friends. Often a friend or family member can see things more clearly. Do they see abuse in your relationship?

Take Steps to Stay Safe

  • Be clear about behavior you won’t accept and stick to your limits.
  • Trust your feelings. If something feels uncomfortable, pay attention.
  • Have a support system. Stay in touch with friends, family, and/or a counselor.
  • Avoid drinking and drug use.

 

 

YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE RESPECTED AND TO RESPECT YOURSELF!!!

Contact

Generally, the quickest and most accessible way to seek help for a Title IX-related concern at (College) is to contact your Title IX Coordinator.



Complaint Form

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LAMC Title IX Coordinator

Kelly Enos

(818) 364-7610

EnosKW@lamission.edu

Instructional Building
Faculty Office area
Office #21

LAMC Title IX Deputy

Madelline Hernandez

(818) 364-7618

HernanMK@lamission.edu

They are on your campus, ready to assist you. If you still have additional questions or concerns related to Title IX, you may also contact Victoria Friedman at LACCD's Office for Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion at (213) 891-2125 or friedmv@laccd.edu. LACCDs Office for Diversity, Equity, & Inclusion is located at the Districts Educational Services Center in downtown Los Angeles.

Los Angeles Area

Valley Trauma Center CSULA

14651 Oxnard st.
Van Nuys, CA 91411
(818) 787-9700

Strength United

David H. Fox
Counseling Center Phillips Graduate University

19900 Plummer St.
Chatsworth, CA
91311

(818) 861-6627

Counseling Center:
(818) 386-5615

National

Domestic Violence Hotline
800 978-3600

Stalking Hotline
877 633-0044

National Domestic Violence Hotline
800-799-SAFE (7233)

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